"Stop trying to get it together. The biggest lie we're told when we're growing up is that as soon as we're adults, as soon as we're in college, finish college, get that job, have that steady income, find that someone special, find ourselves, find that perfect house, get that retirement fund, have those children, everything will fall into place.
Here's a secret : it won't.
The sooner you accept that, the better off you'll be."

-Unknown